Intervention: Involvement
Before any programming or activities, the involvement of caring individuals was imperative in my healing journey. They were inputting into my life as concerned friends, without any form of agenda. Recreational activities, barbecues, coffee chats are all things I now use when beginning conversations and relationships. No "should-ing" on - we need to know how much you care before we care about how much you know.
Time was the involvement.
Due to the level of trauma and disconnection in my life, having stable people, friends and fellowship translated into a future of communication, development and opening up.
But it requires sincere investments without a particular ambition involved. We can sense when you want something from us because most of what we know are transactional relationships.
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